Quarantine Days of COVID-19

    Day 09 (02-04-2020)

          Act. Fail. Learn. Succeed. 

What will my parents think of me if I fail? What will I tell my friends if I can't win? How will I manage to talk to my relatives and neighbors if the scores aren't good enough? These questions and the fear behind them is known to all. I too, had the same but that was long back when I was in seventh standard. The pressure of our parents, society, relatives, friends and moreover to impress our own self is such that we forget what we've to do. We've been bound to fulfill the answers of these questions to such an extent that nothing else seems to be answered.

The life that is bestowed upon all of us has numerous other questions that can be answered. And the questions, vary from individual to individual, same as the DNA does. Sometimes the questions may sound similar as of some other individuals, but it's just the appearance of the question. The insight of the question is totally different from one to another. Finding the answers to these question sometimes is pretty easy while sometimes it creates havoc and in turn we destroy our own peace while finding the answer. The best thing one can do is to take life as a question paper. You finish those questions first, which you know or find easy to. Before you reach those tough ones, who knows that you run out of time and you can't solve them anymore. It's always better to find answers to some rather than destroying your peace in finding no answers at all.

Now, some people here will say, if we still got time and we are done with finding answers to easy ones, now what about the tough ones? Well, the answer is simple if you are prepared enough then you'll do it and if you're not then you'll play tricks. The same we do in an exam hall when we know nothing, no it's not cheating. Even if cheating was allowed, it'll be of no use and the paper is different to all. So, what you do is re-write the question and then elaborate it with or without any meaning at all. By this, you at least give it a shot, a try rather than not trying at all. By this, you'll for sure learn one thing. And that's to never give up. 

The family, the society, the friends and relatives you've to answer is all on you. You give them the answer, right or wrong doesn't matter. If you don't answer, they'll start dancing on your head thus make sure you've an answer ready. Once that's done, you're left with answering yourself. Now, you can't give a wrong answer to yourself so you've to be honest and sincere to yourself. So, if you fail or tumble, don't worry to lie to yourself or give any false excuse and hope. Rather, accept the failure and answer yourself that you'll get up again and try. Try till you have a better answer to satisfy your own self.

In most of my blogs, I give preference to self. That's because it all starts from you and it all ends with you. So, you're your own hero and your own villain. It's up to you all the time for what you've to chose in life. The hero may not be right all the time, so you can switch out to the villain that time and get a life lived. You're the universe, you're the sun, you're moon and you're the stars. Your life is your galaxy and everything in your life revolves around you only, so you've the power to keep everything intact or let the chaos happen.

Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!!

P. S. Today's positive is that you've to accept yourself. If you can't accept yourself, no one else will. If you can't love yourself, no one else will. If you can't tap your back, no one else will. So start believing in yourself, loving yourself, caring for yourself, enjoying yourself and living yourself. Once all this is done, you'll find that others start doing the same.

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