Quarantine Days of COVID-19

Day 18 (11-04-2020)

Dare the Truth

How many times have you, I and others stopped themselves from uttering the truth at the very last moment. Yes, not that the intention was criminal behind that but a pious one. Stopping yourself and saying that either in a sugar coated manner or lying about it altogether. It's always you and your lord who knows true intention behind that. No matter how close someone is to you, how faithful you're to someone, how trustworthy you've been or how positive someone is to you, once they get to know about the truth, you've lost it all. 

Many a times, the person lacks to picturise the true intent behind that action and misleadingly misleads him/herself. This results in losing the person, puts a crack in the relationship, a knot to the bond and shatters the trustworthiness.

I'm out of words to pen down anything for today's blog. I have no expertise to mark my side on this topic. What I've though is the experience I've been through and I've seen some people who're or have been close to me. One always thinks that by playing around with the truth to keep up the good bond with the person, helps. Well, it does for sure but only for a small period of time. 

When the truth unearths itself, the aftermath is nothing less than any catastrophe. The person, the relationship an the bond that you thought you saved, is shattered to pieces. Even though, many times the benefit of doubt goes towards your good but there's always a chunk of it that makes the difference to what you originally had.

I've found out that we fear; the fear of losing the person, the fear of destroying the relationship and the fear of exhausting the bond. The fear has no other solution than to Dare the Truth. You've to dare yourself to say, do and experience truth all the time. The truth be, bitter to the ears, sour to the tongue or sweet to the mind and heart, dare the truth, always. By this, at-least one thing will be clear, you'll know who's yours and whom you thought was yours. After-all, being clear with things, feelings and humans is always a good thing to live a lively life.

Submit yourself to this dare, let it flow with your daily talks, actions and emotions. It's going to be the most beautiful experience you'll have. Maybe you won't understand or experience that quickly but in the long run, it'll be peace to your soul. And you'll always be glad that you chose this dare as a part of your everyday life. Thus, be worthy enough to accept this dare, not for someone but only for your own self.

Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!! 

P. S. Today's positive is that once we accept that we are the reason for the treason of our own self, we will grow and live a life. If we don't accept that, we will keep on losing people, hurting emotions and crushing feelings. Accept it and live the life, you've always dreamt of.

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