Day 22 (15-04-2020)
Who has the power over you?
We together have completed the first phase of the lockdown successfully. Now we move onto the second phase of 18 days. Let's hope we soon overcome this pandemic and also give nature the worth and place it deserves wherein we had ruined it severely. Today's topic starts from you and ends on you. It is all negative and bad yet it's all positive and good for you on a way or two. Let's understand who had the power over you. And this is a very serious thing as someone else getting control over you means they can do anything with you as per their will.
Now, the biggest worry in letting people come into your life is giving them control over you. Not all are like the same but when you decide to keep someone close to you and you express your emotions, feelings and thoughts to them, you expose yourself. The affect of that person matters to you such that if they're happy, you're happy. If they're sad, you're sad for no reason at all. The control you've given then over yourself is voluntary at the beginning but once you give them the authority then taking it back is almost impossible.
You expose yourself in front of them as such that you feel safe and secure but under surveillance all the time. An individual is considered lucky if he or she have such people in life to whom they can expose themselves. But wait, if that's a blessing it's a curse too as the person can gain total control over you. By this, you won't remain you, you the real. The mood, the thoughts, the feelings, the emotions and the thinking are all diluted. They're all simulated by that person who's controlling you.
Sounds frightening, isn't it? Yes, it is but not because of the person who controls you but it's frightening because of you. Let me clear that for you here. Look into yourself, how many people have you given this right? How many are still there even without your consent? How your mood is controlled by those who are nowhere related to you? Introspect yourself and look around you and look into you, find those and eliminate them.
Yes, it's necessary to let people be close to you in life and there's no harm in doing so. But time to time, do a quality check and find if they still fit in the same list or they've to be taken off. It's very necessary to keep an eye on them as it'll help you be your own controller and moreover keep your life zero toxic.
Clear yourself of the doubts, use filters and sorting options to set things well in life. By this, you don't set them at the correct place or sort them well to keep everything in accordance but you help keep your own life; yours. You, your life, your emotions, your feelings and your thoughts. It'll start from you and end at you.
Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!!
P.S. Today's positive is that your life has to be in your control. Your mood, thoughts, feelings and thoughts can be effected by other people but they should always controlled by you and none else.
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