Day 21 (14-04-2020)
Special
The word 'Special' is ironically so common that one hears it so often. You're hear it for your travel as special fares, for your relationships as special bonds, for your acts as special care and the list will go on and on. The question still remains the same, what is special and what makes it special? Well, let's dive into our worlds and dig deep to find the answers. And remember it well that special is commonly uncommon.
If we go finding a special relationship in our lives, we look for many things in that which in return makes the relationship special. Well, fine that if you look around for the checklist to confirm if it fits the special tag or not. But, how many of us, this includes me as well, have tried to check that do we put ourselves into the weighing scale. Because no matter how special the relationship is, it is a two-way submission of emotions and feelings.
The push won't work if there's no pull, the in won't go in effect if there's no out and the bad won't vanish if there's good visible. Once we put ourselves to test, the outcome is always good and fruitful. The special relationship will be even more special once you, me and others will consider questioning to our own self that are we enough or doing enough to be indulged into a special relationship.
Now, a special person to whom we acknowledge that he/she is very special and no one can replace him/him. Now, let me clear a doubt here itself. This special person is someone who's not your first-blood relation like your parents or siblings. I've an answer to why that is so as parents and siblings are always and forever special, they're not first tested and then given the tag, the special tag is always with them. So, finding that special person, who can be a friend, a far-off relative, an acquaintance, a co-worker, a teacher or a lover.
This special person keeps no expectations from you wherein you do keep expectations from them. This special person is available for you wherein many a times you're not. This special person halts anything for you wherein you sometimes keep them on pause for something less important. This special always puts you first wherein you rarely do that. This special person controls his/her mood according to yours wherein you keep up your mood as it is. This special person talks, walks, thinks, smiles, laughs and lives you wherein you dump everything that comes to you, to them.
Here's an interesting fact I found out on my own, when it comes to the special person, it's never ever two way. Even if it's, it's controlled by one person for the majority of the time. This means, if you're special to someone, who does all that is mentioned above, then they aren't special to you. If they're, you don't do it half half rather the other person is the on the majority of it. You, on the other hand, can be a special person for someone else, wherein you do the all mentioned above and you hold the majority and the circle goes on like that.
So, for understanding what's special and who's special, we have to acknowledge one simple thing. Do we weigh enough on the scale to call someone special or be someone's special? If the answer is Yes, then you're good to go. But if the answer is hesitant by any means, it's a big worry as you're not only lying to yourself but to them as well, giving them a false hope. Ask the question to yourself and get the answer cleared and act accordingly. This will save you, your relationship and your special one for you.
Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!!
P.S. Today's positive is that not every person can be special. Not every relationship can be special. You've to figure it out and give that tag to the person who's deserving enough only after you've found that you're yourself deserving enough to call them special. Sort that out and the special will be special forever.
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