Quarantine Days of COVID-19

Day 07 (31-03-2020)

Treat them as They want

It's been observed that individually, humans tend to get either attached or shy away from other fellow humans due to how they're treated. Most of the humans in today's world prefer getting treated according to their will. Say for instance, a person who commits a mistake would want to get it justified and be given no punishment. If treated this way, the person would be attached to you for the same. 

Now, if you be right on your part and Mark them for what mistake they did, they'll be offended and will try to shy away from you. Now, this isn't what happens all the time. There are chances that they'll appreciate what you say or do for them, being honest but that percentage of behavior is very less to find.

Having talked about behavior, humans get along with the same behaving people and try to relate to them as their own. They share, eat, enjoy and mingle with them with ease and love. They find peace when they're around them and even their thought gives them a subtle peace of mind and body. Many a times, we as humans, look around for such people. People who have the same behavior, the same thought process and the same assurance for the other person.

But, what we forget is, we are giving them the power to get onto our mood, thoughts, pleasures and pain. Their subtle change in the behavior and Boom! We get affected without even them knowing about it. Thus, it's very important to, first choose those correct people and second giving those correct people such stake on your life and it's happenings.

Collectively, we should be doing one thing right and everything else will fall in place like a solved puzzle. We should be treating not as how they want us to but how their actions and the situations demands. This, my friends, is the need of the hour. If, one has to survive the battle of being an emotional fool, then this hard step has to be taken. This step, not only ensures you to get the right people in your life but also eliminates the non-worthy ones. 

Once you treat a spade as a spade, you'll see that you'll have for sure less, very less number of people in life but those who are, will be your true colors. They shine even when you're gloomy. They sparkle even when you're in dark. They sing even when you don't speak. They dance even when you don't move. They do all this for you and your good. They make you the person, you're destined to be. Not to the one, you're told to be. 

So stop treating people as they want and fake the relation with them. Start a new trend and treat them as they're to be not as they want. A new beginning is always a tough one but it is always in the good interests of you, your people and everything else happening around you.

Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!!

P.S. Today's positive is nothing out of the box but a very simple thing; to be honest. Honest about how you feel about people in your life. Honest about how you place people in your priority list. Honest on things that hurt you or make you feel loved. Honest about not hiding anything and letting people know how its works for you, for it's your Life and only you've the rights of living it as one hell of a roller-coaster ride.

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