Quarantine Days of COVID-19

Day 31 (24-04-2020)

What's your blessing?

And the king of all the month's has arrived. It's Ramadan and the Muslim Ummah is rejoicing all over the globe for its the month of blessings. Ramadan comes from the root word ramad which means that which is intensely or vehemently heated by the sun. And the word ramdhaa which means the intense heat of the sun. The Arabs used to say about the sheeps that they were burned while they were grazing under the scorching heat of the sun to the extent that their livers became damaged by the intense heat of the sun. Ramadan was named such because it burns the sins of the believers. For the whole month, the believers tend to live a life which is more pious than rest of the year. Not to forget, this pious life isn't to be lived only for this one month but the whole lifetime. The question by the end remains, what's your blessing?

A blessing for a muslim is that he or she got a chnace to fast again in the month of Ramadan. This is a very big thing for a believer as it gives them a chance to be close to their Almighty Allah and enjoy the numerous and unlimited blessings. The blessings in the form of delicious food by the time of breaking their fast or upon suhoor. The blessings in the form of getting their prayers answered quickly and becoming more pious than before.

But wait, the real blessings are missed out. The Almighty Allah wants you to spend more time with your family. To sit with them, help them in the daily chorus, eat with them and pray with them. This is the real blessing that we all miss out on and forget to thank our Almighty Allah for it. 

When the Father, the Mother, the Son, the Daughter or the Daughter in law sit down and pass on the plate of Dates to each other, it's a sight of immense love. One has to understand this blessings and thank his Almighty Allah for making it possible for an individual to have such a life wherein the whole year he or she is busy in such a way that even food is either leftover or eaten from outside.

Another such blessing is to know what a person or a family, who have no good means to eat and live, survive with a smile on their face. This month of Ramadan, when you fast, it's the rememberance of such people that we've to ponder upon. For these, people or families, are thankful to Almighty Allah, under all circumstances. But many a times, we as individuals or a family, who are bestowed with all the blessings of Allah, we pay no heed to thank our Creator. 

Our lord Almighty, is in no need of our gratitude or prayers, as it'll pay no impact to the Creator but it's us who are given things and blessings in such a count that too without asking but our selfishness and greed makes us be not only less thankful rather arrogant that we've had less.

Ponder upon the above mentioned things and blessings, for its not only for muslims but for all other faiths as well. The message from our lord is same, the Almighty has bestowed us with such unlimited blessings that we're relentlessly unthankful.

If i've got a plane, the person in a car is unthankful, if I've got a car, the person on a bike is unthankful, if I've got a bike, the person on a scooter is unthankful, if I've got a scooter, the person on a cycle is unthankful, if I've got a cycle, the person walking barefoot is unthankful and if I'm walking barefoot the person who has got no legs is unthankful, so on and so forth.

That's why it's mentioned is all major religions including Islam that if you ever get distracted away from your faith, look at the people who are below you not the upper ones and you'll reclaim the faith back.

Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!! 

P. S. Today's positive is that we always be thankful to our Creator and feel blessed enough for we're breathing, eating, earning, enjoying the bestest of the life out there.

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Quarantine Days of COVID-19

Day 30 (23-04-2020)

Melodies of Life

The music, the movies, the webseries, the apps and what not is what you've been doing all this time. The quarantine has come as an excuse to many of us for binge watching our fav movies, webseries and other things for which we've had almost no time in our busy life. But the importance of all the entertainment we're sorrounded by is a question to us. The entertainment questions us about the credibility of what entertains us? 

The melodies that we hear, the melodies that we see and the melodies that we feel are all materialistic. It soothes our body and gives us immense pleasure bodily. The ears find it soothing, the eyes get such a relief and the mind is mesmerized by the whole experience altogether. 

The storyline makes one feel the hero or the vilian as per their psyche for some time. The means of entertainment make you dwell into the system so much that, you're never aware of real melodies that are peace to you in real.

The Melodies of Life in real are the sounds of nature, that soothen the soul. The silence of nature is the greatest music you'll ever hear, only if you're listening to it with your soul and not your ears. 

The sunrise and the sunset, the rains and the thunderstorms, the snow and the flakes, the spring and the fall, the summer and the cold winters, the mountains and the lakes are just some of its melodies. Not only these but the yelling of furious nature is also a sight to behold. That includes the storms and the volcanic eruptions, the tsunamis and the hailstorms make the very less of nature's fury.

There's no denial of not enjoying the entertainment we deserve for our body. One should for sure have a ball out there but at the same time, one should remember the soul needs the entertainment too. The soul vouches for craziness and madness too. Matter is, where and how to find it our for your soul.

Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!!

P.S. Today's positive is that when we give the mind and the body all that it deserves, the soul shouldn't be let off. The soul needs its own kind of entertainment too. Keep a proper balance and live a life full of luxury.

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Quarantine Days of COVID-19

Day 29 (22-04-2020)

I am my Enemy

And when I let people in my life, who just pretend to be mine, I become my ENEMY. It is never a fault of theirs but only mine. If I let them be in my life and as soon as I get know the real them but still keep them as a part of my life, one way or the other, there's none at fault, but me. The enemy, be remembered, is always dangerous to be just let-go. It has to be eliminated from the root itself, if not done so, it'll haunt you back again, every now and then. 

The enemy acts as a parasite and will grow only when you're the host. If you don't be the host, it's long dead. You, as a host, provide this parasite all the basic necessities to thrive upon you and in return it does help you back, but all negative. It traumatizes you, it haunts you, it deflects you, it cringes you and it stops your growth towards the good. The point is very harsh that I'm making but reality, my dearest friends, isn't sweet, it's always harsh.

The reality indicates you to grow a hard tactic and tantrum against this enemy and eliminate it from the roots altogether. This enemy that lies on you and within you, surpasses all the crucial challenges to reach you and if you give it a go, then there's no stopping it. You've to make sure that, you're not giving any thumps up to it and it's actions. 

The actions it portrays are very absurd and you get to know that in the beginning. You've to keep your cool and calmly finish this parasite from yourself and make yourself a host for your own credibility, your desires, your morals, your goals and not to your enemy, the parasite. 

Remember one thing and make sure you get that right in the context of your life that when an enemy tries to hound on you; give it an answer no less than a thunderbolt. For, the strength you show and empower that time will define how good or bad your life in future is going to be.

Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!!

P. S. Today's positive is that once we let ourselves be the host for such discreet things and ideology, the enemy within us prospers. The parasite grows better, but your life Morales are the antibiotics and will help you reclaim your self with a new life to live. Keep them high as ever!!

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Quarantine Days of COVID-19

Day 28 (21-04-2020)

What and Who Bullies you?

Once in a lifetime, we have come across the situation of getting bullied by someone or a situation demanded us to get bullied. While going through this tough time, we either accepted it as it came to us or we took help of someone to avoid the situation or the best we fought against it being vocal, physical and sometimes wrote about it.

With bullying comes a question who or what really bullies you once you grow up? For me, no other person or the situation bullies me but my own self. The will that stops me from doing something new, something crazy and something which is obsolete, for me that is my bully. That bullies me from doing all of it because it knows I'm gonna try and do it. The vibe that keeps me aback is my bully. 

When the situation tries to keep me away from being an achiever, that's my bully. The situation is to be changed and no one else is going to come and do that for me or for you, it has to be done on my own and in your case, on your own. The situation will always favor against you. Rare will be the times when it'll be on your side. 

For, the situation and the time is always a bully for you, for me and for anyone else. It all depends on you, on me about how we deal with it. We give our best shot and stand against getting bullied or just bow down and get bullied. By the later, we give it a better chance to shackle our confidence and shatter us all over the place. 

The bully, who is a person, a situation or a vibe is to be taken off. The bully is something or someone bad but for you it's a chance to gather your wit and power to overcome the hurdles that stop you from being you. And once you gain control over your bully, you're a winner in true nature. There's no first, second or third place at all. You're just a winner and you remain one, you're out of those numbers game.

So, go ahead and find the bully that lives within you and around you. Overcome it and be a winner, for you're an achiever.

Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!! 

P. S. Today's positive is that we always look into someone else and state it stopping us from being what we are supposed to be. But that's not true, that bully lives within you and we've to defeat that and rest, things will fall place accordingly.

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Quarantine Days of COVID-19

Day 27 (20-04-2020)

Is it Timepass?

One more minute and I'll be done. You, me and every human on this planet would have either heard this line or said the same. The timepass that we have, be that a game, doing any activity, playing cards etc isn't wrong but the timepass should be dealt as it is. The Timepass is passing the time not wasting it. 

When you're committed with your timepass for 1 hour and that's your allocated time for that activity and the time you enter the 61st minute, you've wasted that one productive minute. The minute then changed into several minutes, several minutes into half an hour, half an hour into one hour and one hour into many many hours. And this is the time you've to ask yourself, are you passing the time or the time is passing you?

The activities are never negative or wrong as long as they're within the timelines of what you've decided. Because the day you can't keep a limit or promise to yourself, you can't keep it with anyone else. You'll be just a fake person afterwards. It's you who plays the timepass not the timepass who plays you. If one has made a vow to himself for something that's more important than the timepass and misses even a single second in that, the person has to look back and understand what's missing in him/her.

Clearly, a human in the world, full of technology and ease tends for many timepasses but nothing much of credible worthiness. It's you who has to find worthiness is things which matter to you and your base as what and who you're. Once you get to know what's your base and you find that sparkle in you, you'll wake up a different human altogether. A human who is now aware of what's to be done with life. A person who gets an answer to his/her life, he/she becomes invincible afterwards.

Thus, keep your eye open on the answer to your life. It may come up anytime, or it is already visible, just give a proper sight to it. And make sure that you pass the time and don't let the time pass you. Earn the goal you've been aiming for and achieve the destination for which you've set yourself on the road.

Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!!

P. S. Today's positive is that the time is a very crazy illusionist, you've to keep yourself firm. You can't distract yourself for something which isn't true and in real. You capture that moment of illusion from time but don't live in it and it's a win-win situation for you, every time.

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Quarantine Days of COVID-19

Day 26 (19-04-2020)

Let the Silence Talk

You Talk, you Shout, you Scream, you Yell and you speak it all. Still most of the times you find yourself speechless as the person or people around you don't understand it at all. You try to make them understand one way too many but it makes no sense to them at all. Well, I've found one answer to it all. You can let the Silence speak for you. It has the power to gain control over anyone at anytime. It makes them frustrated and curious at the same time.

Today's blog isn't a normal blog but a poem that will describe how silence plays an important role in making people understand that words do matter but the silence understood by people is far superior.

Silence- unheard screams and shouts

Out loud and full of volume

To cry out the pain

To scratch the scars

To un-heal the healed 

To shun the soul 

       Silence- unheard screams and shouts

Unholy smiles and brunt souls

To carve for hell

To smug out life

To abstain from love

To restrict mind from heart

       Silence- unheard screams and shouts

Bodily Joy and materialistic happiness

To stay intact with world

To remain in the fake

To stay away from reality

To manage the managing

       Silence- unheard screams and shouts

Recovering from Dihahs and Khan

To be the only one forever

To close the gap forever

To kill the struggle forever

To become Dihahs-Khan forever

       Silence- unheard screams and shouts

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Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!!

P. S. Today's positive is nothing at all. The silence is your positiveness. Let the Silence speak for you. Unfold the poem in your real life.

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Quarantine Days of COVID-19

Day 25 (18-04-2020)

What's to be freed?

After all the things you try to free from life, for you're only looking for peace. The peace that comes to you only if you're ready to accept it and surrender everything else. But, unfortunately in today's world, it's very rare and near to impossible to implement this is in real life. Surrender isn't a tough job to do but surrendering such things which are materialistic for peace which is mere deception for all the beings now is pretty tough. If this scenario comes up with you or you know someone who's stuck at this, ask them, what's to be freed?

They might, at first hand, not understand the question itself. But, ask them again and stress on the word free very perfectly. They will get a jolt and ask you why you're asking this as they're all good and great in life. As soon as you hear such lines, you got your answer. They're not and they need some help to set free. The biggest question still remains, what's to be freed. Well, it's your SOUL that has to set free. 

Not free from your body and leaving this mortal life but free from making it dirty, polluted, diluted and delusional. The soul has to kept in its purest form. It's purest form is that the soul is the chooser not the taker. The soul chooses for itself but in today's world, humans are so downgraded that they make the soul agree to what their materialistic love ask them.

I'm keeping the blog very short and crisp today, for I can't elaborate about these delusions and dilutions. No matter what and how good I try to put forward your image in front of your soul, you'll reject it. The soul is tampered, thus you got to repair it well. Yes, soul is self-healing but you've to give it that chance so that it can show you the path once it recovers itself well. 

For peace to be with you and within you, you've to leave apart the materialistic delusions. Don't get surprised when you'll find that you've moved ahead a long way and the soul is still stuck at the point where you changed the course towards materialism. Question yourself, question people around you, question me if you feel I'm too, as I can be in this delusion as well. Let's question the question itself for we have to be sure about, What's to be freed?

Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!!

P. S. Today's positive is that question it and don't be afraid of it. Even if there will be revolts, it'll be just timely. The soul will set you free.

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Quarantine Days of COVID-19

Day 24 (17-04-2020)

Be a Poem

After a suitable cause of you being alive, you'll find the synchronization of fitting yourself to where you belong. This cause helps you grow accordingly and makes you be the one, you're. And when you try to find yourself and look out for a metaphor of who you're, you get confused. This happens because you find one characteristic in a particular thing and something else in another. You're stuck in choosing which one to confirm as your metaphor and life by then is done with you. It is very hard to find so but at the same time it's very important too to quickly do so, for you relate to it and make yourself easy to get along with things. 

Well, I've an answer to your question. The answer is I've found a metaphor of my life. And I guess this metaphor can be everyone else's metaphor without any question. The metaphor is 'POEM'. Yes, find yourself as a poem. A poem, full of rhythms. A poem, musically grooming. A poem, explaining you in lyrics. A poem, keeping you open as a free verse. A poem is an answer to your every single question and a poem describes you as nothing else can. It can as easy as reading and understanding it to as tough as the readers, who will have a say of their own. 

The good part of being a poem is the readers will judge you and have a say according to their own understanding. The same thing happens in life, people understand you not the way you want but as they've understood and read you.

Being a poem makes you be restless towards stopping at one, you want more out of it. You write its parts, squeals and prequels. Not only that, whatever you forget to mention, you can recall that in post script as well. Thus a poem sums up it all, a poem sums up you as once in for all. I've been writing poems from past 7 odd years and I've come a long way. Though I haven't published anything at a big scale and I intend not for, only for now. The poems in a very unique and minimalist way portray and explain me and humans. 

The poems forgo things which aren't required and keeps it precise and all open readers to give it a thought and take it on their own way. By this, many have found themselves in those poems and have even told me that how come I can write with such ease about them even when I rarely know them. The answer is simple, I, write about me and the life around, you'll find yourself in the same. Afterall, we are humans and we are full of chaos. And forget not, a poem is till eternity, never-ending.

If you all want to give a read to some of my poems then you can check them out on my Instagram profile at @khanshahidsalam or @dihahswrites 

Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!! 

P.S. Today's positive is that finding a metaphor in your life lets you find yourself pretty well to live a bundled life. A life, which isn't shown as same to everyone but a different picture to every single. Find your metaphor and give life a better chance of being lived.

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Quarantine Days of COVID-19

Day 23 (16-04-2020)

Days, Months and Years = Dates

We started this journey together from 27th of last month and we are closing in a month old in next one week. And when I say we, I mean we are into this together. Wherein I'm the writer and you all the readers, I'm nothing without you all, thus We. What's it with these dates that makes people go a bit crazy. It gives certain people such a feel that they overdo many things, which in reality isn't required at all. When that date is nearby, they're onto the preparations, surprises and wishes. 

It can be a birthday, an anniversary, a promotion or a day of remembrance. In today's world, they now do it for anything and everything. Every single day of the week is something to be celebrated for. For people who are happy that their loved ones remember the dates well enough. They're all amazed to get wished by them and that too crazily at 0000 hours. If you're the first one to wish them, you'll be up all over their social media accounts with all emojis and feelings. 

You'll be a star overnight. But the stardom, let me tell you, will only last a maximum of 48 hours and then boom, you'll be a commoner again. This is a very harsh reality and in today's era, this is of a practical guide to all of us. This makes us feel good, special and lucky but for how long? Materialistically, it will last for sometime and many a times for a lifetime of a water bubble.

When it comes to me, I don't wish people or like to be wished at all. I don't limit myself to particular dates, days or events. I, rather live the moments and I don't have to remember them at all. They're always there with me, in my good and in my bad. When I had that hand in mine with a layer that was in between, unforgettable moment. The face that's still unseen, precious moment. The eyes that only keen for me, pure love. The crossing of road after making sure everything is clear and keep myself on the incoming traffic, goosebumps all over. The touch to the bun with a minimal pressure, soulful.

I can go on counting such moments and the blog will become an e-book itself. My point of sharing such things today is that the moments are precious this save the moments, not on any calendar or as a reminder on your phone but as a preserved memory with you forever. It's these memories and moments that make you feel that a life is better when you've such people in life. Wherein every other human is alive and spending a life, he or she has be granted. When you've such moments to recall, you my darling, have a life to live and love.

So, go to the gallery of your life and pick up the precious moments. Delete the unnecessary ones that are taking up unwanted space. Clean it out and give space to new and precious moments. You don't need to remember the days, weeks or months. You'll live the moments and inturn you'll remember them all. Something which is not materialistic and something which isn't loved by everyone around. Be crazy in your own way and make your loved ones realize that you remember them and the moments spent with them in such a way that no one else can ever imagine of. The feel they'll have after that will be something that they're proud of being with you and spending it with you.

Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!!

P.S. Today's positive is that forget the dates, delete the reminders, cancel the events. Live the moments and you'll have to remember nothing at all, ever again. You live them with those people who are involved and it'll be a blessing for both of you. The moments will be something you'll want to live for, till eternity.

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Quarantine Days of COVID-19

Day 22 (15-04-2020)

Who has the power over you?

We together have completed the first phase of the lockdown successfully. Now we move onto the second phase of 18 days. Let's hope we soon overcome this pandemic and also give nature the worth and place it deserves wherein we had ruined it severely. Today's topic starts from you and ends on you. It is all negative and bad yet it's all positive and good for you on a way or two. Let's understand who had the power over you. And this is a very serious thing as someone else getting control over you means they can do anything with you as per their will. 

Now, the biggest worry in letting people come into your life is giving them control over you. Not all are like the same but when you decide to keep someone close to you and you express your emotions, feelings and thoughts to them, you expose yourself. The affect of that person matters to you such that if they're happy, you're happy. If they're sad, you're sad for no reason at all. The control you've given then over yourself is voluntary at the beginning but once you give them the authority then taking it back is almost impossible. 

You expose yourself in front of them as such that you feel safe and secure but under surveillance all the time. An individual is considered lucky if he or she have such people in life to whom they can expose themselves. But wait, if that's a blessing it's a curse too as the person can gain total control over you. By this, you won't remain you, you the real. The mood, the thoughts, the feelings, the emotions and the thinking are all diluted. They're all simulated by that person who's controlling you. 

Sounds frightening, isn't it? Yes, it is but not because of the person who controls you but it's frightening because of you. Let me clear that for you here. Look into yourself, how many people have you given this right? How many are still there even without your consent? How your mood is controlled by those who are nowhere related to you? Introspect yourself and look around you and look into you, find those and eliminate them. 

Yes, it's necessary to let people be close to you in life and there's no harm in doing so. But time to time, do a quality check and find if they still fit in the same list or they've to be taken off. It's very necessary to keep an eye on them as it'll help you be your own controller and moreover keep your life zero toxic.

Clear yourself of the doubts, use filters and sorting options to set things well in life. By this, you don't set them at the correct place or sort them well to keep everything in accordance but you help keep your own life; yours. You, your life, your emotions, your feelings and your thoughts. It'll start from you and end at you. 

Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!!

P.S. Today's positive is that your life has to be in your control. Your mood, thoughts, feelings and thoughts can be effected by other people but they should always controlled by you and none else. 

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Quarantine Days of COVID-19

Day 21 (14-04-2020)

Special 

The word 'Special' is ironically so common that one hears it so often. You're hear it for your travel as special fares, for your relationships as special bonds, for your acts as special care and the list will go on and on. The question still remains the same, what is special and what makes it special? Well, let's dive into our worlds and dig deep to find the answers. And remember it well that special is commonly uncommon.

If we go finding a special relationship in our lives, we look for many things in that which in return makes the relationship special. Well, fine that if you look around for the checklist to confirm if it fits the special tag or not. But, how many of us, this includes me as well, have tried to check that do we put ourselves into the weighing scale. Because no matter how special the relationship is, it is a two-way submission of emotions and feelings. 

The push won't work if there's no pull, the in won't go in effect if there's no out and the bad won't vanish if there's good visible. Once we put ourselves to test, the outcome is always good and fruitful. The special relationship will be even more special once you, me and others will consider questioning to our own self that are we enough or doing enough to be indulged into a special relationship.

Now, a special person to whom we acknowledge that he/she is very special and no one can replace him/him. Now, let me clear a doubt here itself. This special person is someone who's not your first-blood relation like your parents or siblings. I've an answer to why that is so as parents and siblings are always and forever special, they're not first tested and then given the tag, the special tag is always with them. So, finding that special person, who can be a friend, a far-off relative, an acquaintance, a co-worker, a teacher or a lover. 

This special person keeps no expectations from you wherein you do keep expectations from them. This special person is available for you wherein many a times you're not. This special person halts anything for you wherein you sometimes keep them on pause for something less important. This special always puts you first wherein you rarely do that. This special person controls his/her mood according to yours wherein you keep up your mood as it is. This special person talks, walks, thinks, smiles, laughs and lives you wherein you dump everything that comes to you, to them. 

Here's an interesting fact I found out on my own, when it comes to the special person, it's never ever two way. Even if it's, it's controlled by one person for the majority of the time. This means, if you're special to someone, who does all that is mentioned above, then they aren't special to you. If they're, you don't do it half half rather the other person is the on the majority of it. You, on the other hand, can be a special person for someone else, wherein you do the all mentioned above and you hold the majority and the circle goes on like that. 

So, for understanding what's special and who's special, we have to acknowledge one simple thing. Do we weigh enough on the scale to call someone special or be someone's special? If the answer is Yes, then you're good to go. But if the answer is hesitant by any means, it's a big worry as you're not only lying to yourself but to them as well, giving them a false hope. Ask the question to yourself and get the answer cleared and act accordingly. This will save you, your relationship and your special one for you. 

Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!!

P.S. Today's positive is that not every person can be special. Not every relationship can be special. You've to figure it out and give that tag to the person who's deserving enough only after you've found that you're yourself deserving enough to call them special. Sort that out and the special will be special forever.

                                           
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Quarantine Days of COVID-19

Day 20 (13-04-2020)

To Love is to Live

If you've to get enough of what you've or to give out enough of what you've, you need one thing; Love. Love to give it out and Love to get it in. And without any doubt, Love is such a feeling that it turns world's upside down in just a blink. This love can be in any form and for any person, passion or a thing. The love makes you scale mountains, stay firm on a promise, conquer the unattainable and in the worst cases boom it all to ash. What we understand of love is just stuck around some things and thus makes us the frog in the well.

Bound to some things and made to thought that this is the whole world and nothing else out of it. But, once love empowers us, we get to know that there's a lake, a sea and an ocean to float into. How to get into them is how well you float or of your well. Breaking the barriers without breaking anything at all. When in love, you bring that lake, that sea and that ocean to you rather than you going to them. The well you were bound it, makes out to be all it and you got to dive into such vast open stack that it makes you feel pretty pretty tiny yet at the same time gives you the power to control it all. 

For life to be full of love and to get the extract of love to the fullest you've to in turn live it. As I find it, for one to rejoice love's true treasure, one has to live; to live the love. What I mean by living the love is that one shouldn't just hold onto the boundaries when in love rather expand these boundaries to limitless endeavors. One has to set him/herself on sail and the tides will guide him/her accordingly most of the times wherein sometimes you have to move to it in the proper direction on your own.

We are humans and we are social animals too. We can't live as abandoned beings. The preference is always give to socializing with other humans, one way or the other. Love, in that case, is such a feeling for humans. This binds them into the social behavior of staying and spending lives with other fellow beings. Once the social bond of love develops and deepens, the love turns into life. The love for the person modifies into living the. 

Now, the question is how do we live a person? The answer is simple; we behave them, we smile them, we laugh them, we rejoice them and we stay them, forever. For love can once turn into hate but living someone will never change. It will only result in an materialistic end, death. But the tales, the saga and eternal bliss will remain till man will survive.

So start loving people first and then turn that into living them. You will find that you're in the best of your conditions to give it all to them. The things they deserve, the things they uphold and the things they're worth of. Start giving love the peak it deserves, give love the life it deserves.

Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!!

P. S. Today's positive is that your life is a materialistic one but the love in it is eternal. This live the love and become eternal yourself. Read the lines again and you'll have the answer which made it confusing at first.

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Day 19 (12-04-2020)

Character 

What makes you show and grow yourself? What helps you to determine the zeal and strength behind your actions? What grabs your attention  to chose and lose people? What controls you to hop over or stay there for people? So many of us have come across these set of questions in our daily life. 

We might have found answers to some, we are stuck with some or confused about all. When the Struggle, the Truth, the Happiness is jumbled up, the Character forms. Let your character speak for you, stand for you and showcase you the way you're.

The character holds a person accountable for how humans around them will perceive them. It is like an identity card, that show who you are and most importantly are you legal enough. One must have encountered this often in the daily chorus of life that people around them are judgmental. Now, they being judgmental isn't your headache at all but you're to show the best of your character, for sure is yours. 

The responsibility is all yours to portray the best version of you to all. Now, you do not have to only showcase the best of you and think your'e done for the day. But you've to maintain the same throughout to keep yourself the same as your'e, no making up of anything. 

The characteristics of you being what you're towards others and for that matters towards your own self speaks for you. For instance, if you're not taking proper care of yourself and go along loitering around without basic hygiene, manners and trust then you can't demonstrate that towards someone else. Thus, it plays a huge role in how you go along with your self, maintain the character for your own self and play that character well towards others. The character of yours has an out-loud call of what you're. 

If you think that you speak something else of yours, you're wrong. It is your character that hauls so loud for you that everyone else is listening to it clearly except you. So keep an eye on how your character speaks for you, sometimes you unintentionally are showing the bad character of our, which isn't you at all. 

Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!!

P.S. Today's positive is that no matter how judgmental humans or situations may be, you always ponder on to yourself and showcase the best of your character. Because, what the people and situations are towards you, is their character. But how you behave and showcase is always your character. So, handle them well by not being them but being You.

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Day 18 (11-04-2020)

Dare the Truth

How many times have you, I and others stopped themselves from uttering the truth at the very last moment. Yes, not that the intention was criminal behind that but a pious one. Stopping yourself and saying that either in a sugar coated manner or lying about it altogether. It's always you and your lord who knows true intention behind that. No matter how close someone is to you, how faithful you're to someone, how trustworthy you've been or how positive someone is to you, once they get to know about the truth, you've lost it all. 

Many a times, the person lacks to picturise the true intent behind that action and misleadingly misleads him/herself. This results in losing the person, puts a crack in the relationship, a knot to the bond and shatters the trustworthiness.

I'm out of words to pen down anything for today's blog. I have no expertise to mark my side on this topic. What I've though is the experience I've been through and I've seen some people who're or have been close to me. One always thinks that by playing around with the truth to keep up the good bond with the person, helps. Well, it does for sure but only for a small period of time. 

When the truth unearths itself, the aftermath is nothing less than any catastrophe. The person, the relationship an the bond that you thought you saved, is shattered to pieces. Even though, many times the benefit of doubt goes towards your good but there's always a chunk of it that makes the difference to what you originally had.

I've found out that we fear; the fear of losing the person, the fear of destroying the relationship and the fear of exhausting the bond. The fear has no other solution than to Dare the Truth. You've to dare yourself to say, do and experience truth all the time. The truth be, bitter to the ears, sour to the tongue or sweet to the mind and heart, dare the truth, always. By this, at-least one thing will be clear, you'll know who's yours and whom you thought was yours. After-all, being clear with things, feelings and humans is always a good thing to live a lively life.

Submit yourself to this dare, let it flow with your daily talks, actions and emotions. It's going to be the most beautiful experience you'll have. Maybe you won't understand or experience that quickly but in the long run, it'll be peace to your soul. And you'll always be glad that you chose this dare as a part of your everyday life. Thus, be worthy enough to accept this dare, not for someone but only for your own self.

Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!! 

P. S. Today's positive is that once we accept that we are the reason for the treason of our own self, we will grow and live a life. If we don't accept that, we will keep on losing people, hurting emotions and crushing feelings. Accept it and live the life, you've always dreamt of.

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Day 17 (10-04-2020)

Struggle 

They say, struggle for it and it will taste better once you achieve it, wrong they're. It is just a push towards gaining success or that particular thing. A human, can never ever truly adhere to the push behind achieving something. Struggle, for that matter is just a name tag given to the same. See, a human never struggles without a reason. There's no struggle without reason, ever. The reason can be good or bad, perfect or lame but it will exist for sure. 

Struggle and the reason for struggling varies from person to person, situation to situation, motive to motive and aftermath to aftermath. The human race is bound to be the greatest race that ever lived on the face of this earth or even the whole universe. But, don't forget we are humans and we have a very high tendency of getting ourselves downgraded. 

We struggle for the good, the best and unfortunately we struggle for the worst as well. Struggling for something or someone worth and necessary is understood but what about things, situations and humans who aren't? Do we leave them as they're and keep ourselves struggling enough for the 'to be struggled for' ones? Ask yourself and answer your own self, you know it better. 

Struggle is a daily way of life, it is not something you have to do weekly, fortnightly, monthly, quarterly or yearly. The real struggle is to accept yourself in struggling as the one who isn't struggling; lives a life no less than a dead human. The daily struggle for smiling, earning, studying, coping up, managing, waking up, going to sleep, eating and every single thing else is worth. The jamming of a song is how life jams for us plus the struggle being the notes that are necessary, come what may. 

Start accepting the struggles of life, start giving struggle all the heap and high it needs and control the outcome on your own. For, struggle makes you yearn for someone and something which is worth it all. Even when you don't earn that thing, when you don't have that relationship and when you don't prosper as they way you wanted, the struggle for it will always remain faithful to you. 

Till then Bon Voyage, guys Sayonara!!

P.S. Today's positive is that Struggle has all the limits that make you unlimited. Struggle has all the bad's to make you good. Struggle has all the wrongs to make you good. For it is struggle that makes you, breaks you and always keeps you going. Keep struggling for your own self and it will always taste better.

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Day 16 (09-04-2020)

Happiness 

Smile, laugh and be happy, for life is lived only once. You have heard this almost from every single person. Be that a young one or an elder to you. And this is true as well, life is lived only once because death takes away the will that we are proud of. Well, having said that, have we asked ourselves, what life actually is and how happiness plays a pivotal role in keeping life real. 

Understanding the role of happiness is very crucial for life has zero meaning if one can't make out how happiness is indulged into every part of it. Let's try to understand the same and give happiness the priority it deserves in life. 

Even though the whole chunk is to be happy in life altogether. There are many questions related to this but I have found one simple and subtle answer to anything related happiness. The answer is, find happiness in the smallest things, craziest moments, liveliest thoughts, tiniest achievements and junkiest actions. What people tend to do is finding happiness in something big, huge and awesome wherein the secret is that happiness lies in the normal path of our daily life. 

One shouldn't restrict happiness only to big, humongous and top notch achievements. Wherein the latter mentioned is all worth being happy but not restricted to only these. One has to be happy every moment by living it. Not to forgot, you can't be happy when in grief. The idea is to make a human live a happy life not by calculating the large invested time rather than small shots of moments.

The place that you're in, the time that you're investing, the people you're living with, the routes you're taking and the good's you're ignoring along with the bad's you're accepting. Once you get clear with these things, you will give life a better chance for yourself and happiness, without a doubt will fall into the proper priority list. I can bet on this; the bet be of your choice. So, give happiness the chance it deserves or give your bet a chance; in both ways, it will be a win-win situation for you.

Now, people will be thinking that on such an important and crucial topic, why is this guy not writing much. Well, the answer is simple, rather than what i write and then you go out and experience it, I want you to get your happiness; first hand. When you on your own will crawl, only then you'll be able to walk and afterwards run like a pro. 

So, i won't be writing anything else on happiness as it is you who will experience it and share with all of us. Yes, you who is reading it right now. Smile; for you're one happy human. Share your thoughts of happiness with us and let us rejoice you with ours.

Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!!

P.S. Today's positive is to give happiness that stature it deserves in your life. It is all on you how you prioritize your happiness, grief and sadness, altogether. Forget not, all of the mentioned things are necessary but putting them in their proper line of priority is where we lack. Do that and be the happy you always wanted to be. 

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Day 15 (08-04-2020)

Betrayal 

Half a month has gone by and we have been staying inside our homes. While some have been away from their homes, some have been stuck at a place which isn't comfortable for them at all. I am thankful to all you who have been patient enough with me, my writings and my lame suggestions and ideas. Staying here all the way through till now has been a boost to my morale and helps me to write better each passing day. I am obliged to all you, who have given a read to my blogs or shared them with others. You all are the gems which are rare to find and this isn't because of you all being my readers. 

But this is the reality i have found in each and every human being, who have existed till date and will be living till the day of judgement. While, i am talking to all of you through my blogs, i want you all to talk to me as well. Share your thoughts and inputs, how i can better myself, what kind of content you all prefer so that i can indulge with all of you in a better manner. Now, coming onto today's blog, i am going to talk about, BETRAYAL. 

The word is self explanatory and informs us about the wrongdoings by a human towards other fellows with an intention; no less than a murder. The murder here isn't physically assaulting someone to death but its the assault on someone's Feelings, someone's Emotions, someone's Belief, someone's Faith and someone's Trust. An assault to such things leaves the other human dead whilst the world sees him/her lively enough. 

This murder is worst than the physical one, as the physical one kills you once in for all; while this assault leaves you dead every passing moment. Betrayal isn't always linked to a human but many a times a human can betray him/herself too. In both the scenarios, it is the assault by which the human is dead not physically but by every passing moment. Let's go onto some examples to understand this in a better manner and try to implement the self analysis of what betrayal we are doing, is that to someone or to our own self. 

A person betrays someone, when he or she tries to find the materialistic happiness in someone else. Rather than giving transparency a chance and trying to better the relation with that person and finding the true happiness and peace in that person itself. A person betrays him/herself when he/she is ready to compromise on anything and everything. When the person is not ready to take a stand of his/her feelings, emotions, faith and much more. If the person is humiliated of his/her own feelings, emotions, belief, faith and trust; lost is such human and even betrayal is going to do him no good at all. Understand this well, betraying someone else will earn you their hate, their curse, their fury and their disharmony. 

But once you betray yourself, you will be left with no option but destruction of your character in your own eyes. This is the worst ever thing you can imagine of. This marks the start of you going into the black hole of never-coming up from it. Rare and strong willed are such humans, who betray themselves and still come up. It does take a hell lot to do it; thus stay onto it. Find out, whether you're betraying someone else or your own self. Strike out the line quickly and behave well towards your own self. 

Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!!

P.S. Today's positive is that betrayal is a like termite. It crouches on your inside and you look the same beautiful outside. Once someone, who is real to you, tries to assemble you as one; you just dismantle. Look out for the termite in you and also look around if you or someone else is being a termite to someone else. Save them to save yourself. Struggle well to stand well. 

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Day 14 (07-04-2020)

Romance

As the nights are becoming sleepless, the days becoming less productive and the time goes utilized to nothing at all, someone asked me to write about Romance. So, if we go finding the literal meaning of romance then it states a feeling of excitement when in love. So that's why people have restricted romance to one condition, to be in love first. Well, that might sound very obvious and we as humans, can't even imagine romance without being in love. People who are too extreme to romance will comment the term as lust and bodily love if romance has to be understood without being in love. 

So let me give you the complete insight of what romance is, what it should be and what romance makes you. Being in love is one of the condition but it is never a mandatory one. to be romantic. You can be full of romance without loving someone; romantic towards your goal, romantic for your peace, romantic to your life. These examples that i have cited are very well practical and in picture done by humans. I have experienced this romance myself many a times. One doesn't need a partner to experience this feeling. A myth or a legend that associates a partner with romance is to be busted. 

Even though when one is in love and the romance that occurs with the partner is of a different level that time. It does make you feel something out of this worldly pleasure. But, believe me, once being romantic, apart from the partner you're in love with, you'll experience such a feeling that will be indescribable. The romance towards life will help you appreciate many a things in life. Things that have gone unnoticed for ages, things that have been almost nowhere in your priority list. Being romantic towards your own self helps you be romantic to anything and everything. 

Start being romantic towards yourself, start giving romance a chance on you. For this start will help you, people around you and your own world to cherish the ups and downs, highs and lows, rights and wrongs and starts and stops. A life can be never ending like infinity or as small as a blink of an eye. It all depends on what approach you put towards life. Thus, life is in your hand, the romance is the key to unlock the limitless bounties it'll shower upon you. Use the key to unlock the treasuries and collect the gems out of it and beautify the crown of love that's on the head of life. 

Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!!

P.S. Today's positive is that how can you be romantic to your partner when you were never romantic to your own self. Thus, Start being romantic to yourself first, then you, your partner and the life, will start giving you the best excitement you'll eve imagine of. 

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Day 13 (06-04-2020)

Blank

The word Blank refers to something empty or not filled. This blank can be, the answer sheet of an exam, the bottle in the fridge, the cup on a saucer, the pocket of a trouser and many other things that are similar. This blank, is most of the times taken as a negative aspect of the situation. This blank, marks the low point of any situation or the human who's involved in the situation.

Now, that's the first aspect of seeing BLANK. Haven't we have humans found till now that we are blank too? We are blank with our emotions. We are blank by our feelings. We are blank by our characters. We are blank by our love. We are blank by our own soul. Whilst, we question many a things in our life, have we dared to question ourselves for what's blank in us?

I guess we haven't and in most of the scenarios, even I haven't questioned myself for all the things mentioned above. 

Our feelings are blank towards other fellow humans, whether they deserve blankness or not, that's a secondary question. But, why have we turned blank towards them by our feelings, that's the important question. What if, we are wrong, then? The emotions that have gone blank towards other humans will hurt us in the long run. Our love for the fellow beings has gone blank to such an extent that saying, 'I Love You' sounds so poisonous that people prefer to hear, 'I Hate You' instead. What are we doing and where are we leading ourselves towards? 

If we leave apart other beings, what have we done to our own selves? We have left the soul blank, totally blank. The soul wanders, not somewhere else, but within us. The soul of ours is lost. The soul is so blank that even though it is at its destination, it questions, where do I belong? If the emotions, the feelings, the love is blank, somehow a human will survive but if one's own soul is blank then only God can be your savior. As you've lost yourself into the deep shallows of darkness, which exists nowhere, thus neither you nor someone else can find it.

If we have to blank anything, that is hatred towards other beings, negativeness towards positive approach, blank towards jealousy, blank to fill up unnecessary chaos, blank to diminish our soul and blank to cut short or happiness. This might feel an uphill task but peace doesn't come as easy as buying a packet of Maggie. So, one can try and conquer the hill top with ease. We don't have to rush or take any crazy short route, just along the path and reach the destination. During this journey, you will collect small points of happiness and peace and will conquer the ultimate goal afterwards in no time. 

Till the Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!!

P.S. Today's positive is that let's start to blank the verses that have no worth and importance in the book of our life. Now, you find those verses yourself and eliminate them. It will vary from person to person, thus don't use anyone else's eraser to do the same. Your eraser will eliminate it for you, no one else can help you. 

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Day 12 (05-04-2020)

To Lose is to Win

When the going gets tough, the tough get going. This quote is a very inspirational one. Many people have been following this in order to gain something better in their lives. But, i found a flaw in this, as per my thinking. so please do not worry about me fetching flaws in people. That's my way of seeing it and i will share why i feel so. So, before giving my insight into this and explaining what i felt, ask yourself, what inspires you? Inspiration can be both good or bad, it is you who will decide what to gain. How to access the good inspiration from the bad and how to gain bad inspiration from the good.

So coming back to the quote and the flaw i found in it. The quote states to never give up and prefers to not stop when the problem is at high volume and the pressure is too much. That is what we have been taught, the society, parents, teachers and our gurus. Never give up and keep striving till you achieve it. Now, i ask all of them, i ask you all who are reading this and i ask myself, is it worth? Striving till the very end, exhausting yourself to such extent that nothing seems of value now. 

Let me give a real life example. My beloved Mom, keeps on saying that now that we have a big house, your Dad and I gave everything in our power to make what all we have today. But to no use, we have everything but now my health is not the same, i can't sleep well. I used have a great sleep when i used to live in that two-room house and ate mutton after a week or so. Now, we have mutton, chicken almost everyday, a 7-8 room house but feels of no worth. 

This hits me very hard every time I ponder upon this. She makes me understand that, even though it is very necessary to strive hard and never give up but one should not give up his peace, health, energy, relations and soul in order to gain that. By the end, you'll achieve what you were striving for but you'll lose something way more important. Something, for which, you can't now strive and gain as it is unattainable. None of us have given this a thought yet, the circle we have put ourselves tells us only one thing, you've to win and to be number one, all the time. No one has ever told us, even me, that sometimes losing is okay. It is fine that if you can't achieve something, fine if you lose something, fine if you come second, third or even last. The only thing that matters is, you're giving it a shot. 

For years, in fact for centuries, we have been taught that you're to be remembered if you are the best, the number one. Have you ever thought, why do you want to be remembered, this world is going to finish, today or tomorrow. It is perfectly fine if no one even knows you. If you've lived your life to the fullest, nothing else matters. So, next time, you lose, you come second or you stand last be happy that you were a part of it. Wherein, many of the people who are cheering and were capable of participating, never tried. 

Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!!

P.S. Today's positive is that, To lose is to Win. You win the time, the people, the peace and the soul. For, all of this is more important than winning the thing you were striving for. Do not fear to lose rather accept it with all of your heart and move on with a smile for life ends in a blink of an eye. 

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Day 11 (04-04-2020)

Too close is Blur 

If you go with the title of today's blog, some of you would have already assumed what I'm going to write about. Well, every individual will have a different assumption or interpretation of the title. It can be about things that are too close to your eyes thus they're blurred. Rightly so, the case is like that and the things that are too close to the eyes are blurred and non-recognizable. Humans go on thinking that of its close to them, it's better. But that's not the case always.

Here, I want to get your attention towards; not the things being close and blurred but the Situations and the Humans. The people who are too close to you, aren't pretty well visible to you. Many a times, the proper distance, which isn't maintained, halts the beauty of that person in your eyes. You tend to think that they're there with you and you're always looking for someone who will understand you and hop around with you in the good and bad. Mark your vision, firm the distance and relocate the sight to find the people you've been looking for, from the people you've been surrounded by, Always.

Now, coming to the situations that are too close thus blurred. The situations, that happen in your daily life or sometimes occasionally, aren't always the same that you see. Let's say, there's a college election to select the student union's president. They've counted the votes and by far it's a tie. It's your turn to vote and select the president. Now, you've voted for the person,who you think is good as he/she is too close to you. Down the lane, he/she does all wrong doings and bad stuff. He/she was always doing bad only but being too close to you it was always blur to your eyes. By this incident, the sight was clear and you saw the situation, picture perfect.

In both the contexts, we the Humans lack the confidence of putting People and Situations, at bay. The perfect vision to the eye takes time. So, if you make mistakes in finding the clear vision to any situation or human, don't worry. The experience will help you in becoming a master at it, going into far future. By helping yourself, you'll help many others too. It'll help you, get hold of the things that you've been neglecting from such a long time. At the same time, it'll help you in gaining a better hold of people and situations, you've been avoiding.

And sometimes, it's not them, it's us. It's us, who have to clear ourselves, our sight and our vision to get a better hold of them. We also have to do this practice to find the better of our own self. Yes, we don't know ourselves that good till date so by this, we can have a better vision of our own self. Looking at our own self in a new way, in a new avatar and a new personality, all together. I'll end today's blog with a saying of the famous mystic poet, Moulana Rumi (r.a.) and I quote, "Yesterday I was clever, so I was changing the world. Today I am wise, so I'm changing myself". 

Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!!

P. S. Today's positive is that we have to find the good in ourselves. The bad in ourselves. The perfect in ourselves. And once this is done, we will stop finding anything else in anyone else. One can be the world him/herself rather than finding it in someone else, who isn't even aware of what you're looking for. So, let's pledge to be our own world and make it a perfect one after we've found the good and the bad in it.

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Day 10 (03-04-2020)

Charity begins at home

Our beloved Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said, "Charity wipes out sins same as the water extinguishes fire". We, all have one way or the other given charity. The amount could have been anything, the things donated could have been as small as a cup of tea to a golden chain and what not. And I'm proud enough to say that I've always been surrounded by such people, who have a very soft heart and try to be good with people in need. But, what have we confined charity to? Giving alms, providing food, arranging house funds, getting them a job, etc. Well, that's a good part of the charity, what about the other part? Oh, wait, you don't know that yet, right? Then stay connected and I'll elaborate it to you all what the other part or the other side of the coin (charity) means. 

Humans, from ages have been known to put hand in hand and do good for the society, the downtrodden, the needy and the less sourced people. These stories are in our religious scripts, our history books and in our present era too. But, what about the charity of TIME, PRESENCE, SMILE, LAUGHTER, MEET-UP, HUGS and an ADVICE. It's not always the money, the food or the shelter they need, sometimes a hug will do. The time you can spend with them will be the best charity they'll receive. Your presence makes them feel aloft about life. The smile you pass on makes them connect to you as your own. The jokes you share helps them talk to you without any hesitation. The regular meet-ups make them grow as a better person. The advice is no less than any previous gem they can have in life. This is the other side of the charity which almost none of us is aware of.

Now, there is a big problem. People will think that they'll do it and will probably go on with this with the world outside but stop. Remember, Charity begins at Home. So, this part of charity doesn't require one to be needy, poor or downtrodden. It can be given to the richest of the rich. And this is most of the times for your family and friends, to whom you ignore with such charity. They're in need of this from such a long time, they're feeling the poorest humans on earth right now. All they require is, your time, presence, smile, hug and some advice. Your parents need you to give them more time, your siblings require your advice and guidance, your friends need some hugs and smiles, for they've to share a lot with you. 

I hope from today on wards you'll see charity in a very different way and do both sides of the coin. It's not that one is more important than another, they both are equally important and require 100% of your attention and dedication. The successful charity is seen in the smiles of the needy. The smile of the those who are in need of your money, food, shelter and clothes. The smile of those who are in need of your time, presence, smile, hugs and advice. You'll start encouraging yourself for doing this good and afterwards you'll appreciate someone who is already doing this part of the charity for you. Someone, who's making you smile, giving you time, helping you with some advice and presence. 

As we go into double figure days of being in quarantine i.e Day no 10, let's double up the charity and double the enthusiasm of not giving up on life. We have overcome disasters before, we will overcome it this time too. Together we stand till then. Put a smile on your face and make someone's day.

Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!! 

P. S. Today's positive is that we have to understand how our presence and time gives someone a reason to smile. How our smile makes them joyful for the whole day. So, let's not bother in making someone's day without spending anything into it. Rather, by smiling, our face muscles will be in work and it'll help us.

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Quarantine Days of COVID-19

    Day 09 (02-04-2020)

          Act. Fail. Learn. Succeed. 

What will my parents think of me if I fail? What will I tell my friends if I can't win? How will I manage to talk to my relatives and neighbors if the scores aren't good enough? These questions and the fear behind them is known to all. I too, had the same but that was long back when I was in seventh standard. The pressure of our parents, society, relatives, friends and moreover to impress our own self is such that we forget what we've to do. We've been bound to fulfill the answers of these questions to such an extent that nothing else seems to be answered.

The life that is bestowed upon all of us has numerous other questions that can be answered. And the questions, vary from individual to individual, same as the DNA does. Sometimes the questions may sound similar as of some other individuals, but it's just the appearance of the question. The insight of the question is totally different from one to another. Finding the answers to these question sometimes is pretty easy while sometimes it creates havoc and in turn we destroy our own peace while finding the answer. The best thing one can do is to take life as a question paper. You finish those questions first, which you know or find easy to. Before you reach those tough ones, who knows that you run out of time and you can't solve them anymore. It's always better to find answers to some rather than destroying your peace in finding no answers at all.

Now, some people here will say, if we still got time and we are done with finding answers to easy ones, now what about the tough ones? Well, the answer is simple if you are prepared enough then you'll do it and if you're not then you'll play tricks. The same we do in an exam hall when we know nothing, no it's not cheating. Even if cheating was allowed, it'll be of no use and the paper is different to all. So, what you do is re-write the question and then elaborate it with or without any meaning at all. By this, you at least give it a shot, a try rather than not trying at all. By this, you'll for sure learn one thing. And that's to never give up. 

The family, the society, the friends and relatives you've to answer is all on you. You give them the answer, right or wrong doesn't matter. If you don't answer, they'll start dancing on your head thus make sure you've an answer ready. Once that's done, you're left with answering yourself. Now, you can't give a wrong answer to yourself so you've to be honest and sincere to yourself. So, if you fail or tumble, don't worry to lie to yourself or give any false excuse and hope. Rather, accept the failure and answer yourself that you'll get up again and try. Try till you have a better answer to satisfy your own self.

In most of my blogs, I give preference to self. That's because it all starts from you and it all ends with you. So, you're your own hero and your own villain. It's up to you all the time for what you've to chose in life. The hero may not be right all the time, so you can switch out to the villain that time and get a life lived. You're the universe, you're the sun, you're moon and you're the stars. Your life is your galaxy and everything in your life revolves around you only, so you've the power to keep everything intact or let the chaos happen.

Till then Bon Voyage guys, Sayonara!!

P. S. Today's positive is that you've to accept yourself. If you can't accept yourself, no one else will. If you can't love yourself, no one else will. If you can't tap your back, no one else will. So start believing in yourself, loving yourself, caring for yourself, enjoying yourself and living yourself. Once all this is done, you'll find that others start doing the same.

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