When you put in more than 100% into something or someone, what do you deserve in return? You expect if not the same but at least understanding of your efforts by that being. But, here also you're going onto the wrong track as you're planning to elevate the relation or that being from your own point of view. Just because you're giving more than you can/should, that is always your call. The person/situation/relation never demanded so. One needs to understand that the equation is 100% always but it is never a 50-50 game. One day it is 60% by one and the other day it is 90% by the other and together it makes a complete 100%.
Then how come there's a doubt about anything? The doubt about the efforts, the emotions, the feelings, the care, the worry, and the love. The doubt is also created by the person who goes the extra mile as you make the other person reliable on your extra love and care for them. The moment you lack and go to 102% from 110%, the person feels less wanted and less worthy. But the person never knew that you're pouring in more than 100% already, so for them, it is a miss on your end and you lack the effort.
Now what does the WISE DIHAHS says is, stopping making it countable. Just keep on doing it and in all the possible manner. Never make it visible by your words but only by actions and efforts and remember, keep it above the par all the time. The other being gives you the credit or not, accepts your formulations or not, forfeits to the good you do or not; you keep striving. For you are responsible for your good and bad, your right and wrong, and your up and down.
Until next time I pour Pain on Paper, Keep Absorbing... Abaad ❤❤
P.S. You are the one who is responsible for the purity of your soul. The other being is just there to fulfill the void in you, rest it is and always will be YOU.
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Agreeable. The clear depiction of relationship values here is quite appropriate. Keep it up!
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