LOVE; The Lethal Drug of Them All

" I came across Cocaine, Marijuana, Heroin, Meth, Opium, and LSD but LOVE is the Lethal Drug of them all."

When you get trips from the above mentioned physical drugs, the trips are limited. Each one of them has a particular time and after that, they stop giving you that high. It ranges from Minutes, Hours to a Maximum of Day or Two. Now, with the use of these drugs, you're degrading yourself and at the same time moving away from society and it's normal. You get physically visible but not in the way you want; you stand out in the crowd. You're not different but you're apart from the beings and that's the biggest mess you put yourself into. 

Man is a social animal and separateness from other beings, be that by your own or when those beings abandon you; you're nearing your dusk. You always think you're waking up to your dawn but it's your dusk morning to evening; there's no dawn at all. Until and Unless, you on your own, stand for yourself and be brave enough to drug the drug as iron cuts iron.

Now, the focus shifts towards the Most Lethal Drug, "Love." People will be thinking, what's wrong here, how's Love a drug leave it being Lethal of them all. It's very easy to understand and can be proven with simple and subtle examples. When a person is in Love, be that a girl, a boy, or a third-gender, it affects the same way. It never discriminates against anything or anyone. If you're not capable enough to handle its trips, the high it gives will be a negative one and a never-ending one too. 

With Love, you're in a Realm of Imaginations, Expectations, Emotions, Feelings, Impracticality, and Unjustifications. This drug abuses you in such a way that you have no one else but the drug itself to crave for. The drug is the Abuser and the De-Addiction itself.  If you hold on to the drug in its limits then you're in a state of high that won't harm you but as soon as give the drug an extra shot; it'll destroy you within no time. Then you'll have to live with it forever as there's no rehabilitation for this drug abuse.

There's no harm in any drug whatsoever, be that the physical ones mentioned or the emotional one of Love. But the problem starts when there's abuse in it. The abuse can be in different ways; abuse in its Excess, abuse in its Mishandling, abuse in its Acceptance, and abuse in its Entirety. 

Until next time I pour Pain on Paper, Keep Absorbing... Abaad ❤❤

P.S. When you get drugged, you're on a new high and you feel above all. But when in Love, you've to be cautious as there's no superiority in Love but Equality. Only Equal distribution of being high will make Love; Flourish, Grow, Accept, and Enhance with time.

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PEACE and LOVE

 

"When in LOVE then PEACE is something that is automatic; a blatant lie that is."

As soon as you're in LOVE, you tend to think that PEACE will come to you automatically. But that is practically not true and thus impossible at the same. Yes, Peace will be the ultimate destination of Love but not through a smooth and silky road but a track full of bumps, a way full of hurdles and roughness. We, humans tend to accept things way too early and rush into things. We go on to take hold of situations and emotions way before we should, which look bright and shinning at that time but we forget that the Moon shines too but the light ain't it's own. 

The case is the same with emotions of LOVE which we assume as permanent PEACE but are the diminishing twinkles of the moon. But that doesn't qualify the elimination of Peace in Love. It is only that one has to quash hard and struggle enough to make sure that Love and Peace remain intact together.

The duo of Love and Peace is a picture that is visibly so bright and colorful only to the onlooker who gives it a sight and moves away. The real picture, when observed keenly (which can only be seen and explored by the Lovers) is dull and colorless but when Lovers chose to hold hands, make their individual souls reside as one in each other's body; the colors flourish as the colors of rainbow's VIBGYOR. The Lovers make the impossible be possible, the unworthy be worthy, the useless be useful, the mannerless be mannered, and moreover make invisible be visible. 

Until next time I pour Pain on Paper, Keep Absorbing... Abaad ❤❤

P.S. Find Peace in Love but do not force Peace on Love as Peace will show itself the way when in Love. Let Peace prevail when in Love and eventually both Love and Peace will be the only emotions guiding you through. 

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From PERFECT to IMPERFECT

 "You are so perfect, the same as the one I had imagined in my wildest dreams and finally I've found you."

Yes, this is a joke and one should laugh about it. In reality, it's just a myth and the myth gets busted sooner or later. When an individual or a set of people think you're Perfect, what they actually mean is that they've accepted you wholeheartedly but only for on your good not on your bad, only on your right not on your wrong, only on your highs not on your lows, only on your mood not on its swings, only on your front not on your back. No matter how hard they try to implement this onto your thought process but their actions bust the myth out. 

An individual is Perfect in their eyes until and unless their own imperfection isn't shown to them. If you show them where and what they lack, you're pronounced Guilty; then and there. It is not that they fear their imperfection, no, that's not even the case but what they actually fear is, not having perfection like you. Even though a human can't be perfect in all spheres but some humans perfect themselves in such a state that everything else falls into the picture.

This shows that an individual is likely to accept only the mature side and gets pissed off when you show them the immature side of yours. The Human Nature is a very conservative one thus restricted at the same time. It is very hard for the individual to accept the nature of someone that doesn't go in the good interest of theirs. They do accept the nature that relates to them but at the same time it pisses them off when the different or your our version of the nature comes out.

Thus proven that this is how an individual goes from being PERFECT to IMPERFECT.

A person is blessed after he or she gets a person in life who gives them the full strength of being in the full swing of their Mood, Nature and Control. It is hard for them too to accept the flawful part but in the meantime they stick together and sort it out together. Sometimes, it is difficult, hard and almost impossible to get through it but the moment the duo have become one, things settle down eventually and they're making peace with themselves.

Until next time I pour Pain on Paper, Keep Absorbing... Abaad ❤❤

P.S. You are always perfect and at the same time you're always imperfect but it is just hidden behind that drape of perfect. One needs to see that drape and accept both perfection and imperfection of the other being. 

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Thoughts and Reasons

 

And there comes a time or situation and you get some THOUGHTS that it is enough. And at the same time, you get more than a thousand REASONS to stay-put and go on. Why does this happen to humans? And even when it does, what makes a human to be more inclined towards the THOUGHTS and not the REASONS. 

THOUGHTS:- The line starts with, I THOUGHT... It can be true and it can be a false thought as well. There is always a pinch of ASSUMPTION in thoughts as it is always a one-sided process. The other half of the coin in this process is always hidden and unknown and that very blinded side, if not revealed, makes a mess of a human relation or the human as an individual. These thoughts are not immediate mess makers but they make things, relations, and humans hollow and keep them bright and blissful outside. And as soon as you absorb the reality, you shatter as you've been hollow for a long time. Thus, one should go along with the thoughts but should never let these thoughts hold onto him/her.

REASONS:- The answers are always VISIBLE and CONCRETE as REASONS give shape to the things that happen. The things are firm and standstill with the person, emotion, and situation as there are no ifs or buts when it comes to reasons. For reasons, a person is always good to go with his/her life, as he/she has a vision clear enough to move on the road without hurdles. There are no bumps, no stop-overs, or speed breakers. As soon as a human makes peace with all the good and bad reasons, life goes smooth and uninterrupted. But even reasons come with a backdrop as not everyone accepts reasons as the ultimate truth. Thus, a human has to be wise enough in dealing with giving out the reasons for other beings. 

All in all, Thoughts and Reasons do go hand in hand as they're the good and the bad, the right, and the wrong, and can't survive without each other. 

Until next time I pour Pain on Paper, Keep Absorbing... Abaad ❤❤

P.S. Whenever you come across a Thought, make sure that you've accomplished it with a proper Reason.

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And then there's no DOUBT

When you put in more than 100% into something or someone, what do you deserve in return? You expect if not the same but at least understanding of your efforts by that being. But, here also you're going onto the wrong track as you're planning to elevate the relation or that being from your own point of view. Just because you're giving more than you can/should, that is always your call. The person/situation/relation never demanded so. One needs to understand that the equation is 100% always but it is never a 50-50 game. One day it is 60% by one and the other day it is 90% by the other and together it makes a complete 100%.

Then how come there's a doubt about anything? The doubt about the efforts, the emotions, the feelings, the care, the worry, and the love. The doubt is also created by the person who goes the extra mile as you make the other person reliable on your extra love and care for them. The moment you lack and go to 102% from 110%, the person feels less wanted and less worthy. But the person never knew that you're pouring in more than 100% already, so for them, it is a miss on your end and you lack the effort. 

Now what does the WISE DIHAHS says is, stopping making it countable. Just keep on doing it and in all the possible manner. Never make it visible by your words but only by actions and efforts and remember, keep it above the par all the time. The other being gives you the credit or not, accepts your formulations or not, forfeits to the good you do or not; you keep striving. For you are responsible for your good and bad, your right and wrong, and your up and down. 

Until next time I pour Pain on Paper, Keep Absorbing... Abaad ❤❤

P.S. You are the one who is responsible for the purity of your soul. The other being is just there to fulfill the void in you, rest it is and always will be YOU.

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